Twitter direct message etiquette

13 November 2011

Currently I follow around 1500 people on Twitter. My direct message (DM) inbox is only useful because 99.9% of those people and organisations don’t abuse Twitter direct messages.

This is for the 0.1%.

Despite having a relatively large number of friends and followers on Twitter, I rarely have more than one or two DM conversations per day. Looking back through my DM inbox there’s a very clear pattern:

Every welcome conversation in my DM box is with a personal Twitter account rather than an organisational account.

As such, DM conversations get a high priority. There are so few of them it’s easy to keep track of them. DMs trigger a notification on my phone. If you DM me I will generally see it within five minutes unless I’m asleep. When or whether you get a response depends on the content of the message and what I’m doing otherwise.

So DM priority is really like a phone call. If you’re someone I know and you’ve got something that I really need to hear about right now your DM will be very welcome. If you’re someone or particularly a business that I don’t know and you just want to tell me about your product or service I will hate you forever. This kind of inbound communication isn’t sustainable for me. It’s spam.

These kinds of DMs are never welcome and will lead to an unfollow, either with or without a curt response:

It’s as simple as that. Important conversations with people I know, great. DM is not a mass marketing channel of any kind. If you use it as one it’s the last you’ll see of me.

Adrian Short works to get people the information they need, when they need it, in a way that they can understand.

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